Not to long ago I was teaching my computer class and a student was viewing something on youtube that was not allowed in my class. I should let you know that I fully expect students to be on the internet in my class and I expect them to use youtube to teach themselves certain skills. @Mattybraps is not one of those things. So I told him he is banned from youtube for the rest of class and his response was
"Hey but way! You didn't give me a warning."
First of all I didn't know that 11th grade students who are around 16-17 years old need warnings.
Second, I asked myself the question "Have we accustomed ourselves to needing warnings in society?"
So I responded by asking him "If you are robbing a bank do you deserve a warning by the police before they arrest you?"
"FREEZE! Before I arrest you, you should know that this is wrong and if you stop now you can go"
"Sir! I must warn you that this is a crime and you could be arrested but not right now if you stop!"
The students all laughed and I am pretty sure I was recorded during my rant. But the point is clear. We should not need warnings all the time when we already know what we are doing is wrong. There is a time and place for grace and mercy but there is also a consequence for every action we make both right and wrong. In this case the student was dumbfounded I had the audacity to ban him from youtube.
Don't believe that you are always entitled to a warning. Always expect to receive consequences for every action right and wrong.
Be well